What to Say When Someone Has Passed Away

A sad man and woman thinking of a death

When someone passes away, finding the right words can be incredibly difficult. You want to express support, but nothing feels like enough — and the fear of saying the wrong thing can leave you speechless. This guide offers gentle, thoughtful message examples for different situations, whether you're texting a friend, writing in a sympathy card, or reaching out to someone grieving. Use them to help express your care in a kind, respectful way.

For a Friend Who Lost Someone

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through, but I'm here if you need anything — even just someone to sit with.

What to Text Someone After a Loss

I just heard the news. I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you and your family, and I'm here whenever you're ready to talk.

For Someone You're Not Close To

I'm sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and wishing you strength in the days ahead.

Spiritual & Religious

May their memory be a blessing. Praying for comfort and peace for you and your family.

Short & Gentle

So sorry. I'm thinking of you and sending love.

Death is one of the hardest things to talk about, and knowing what to say when someone has experienced a loss can feel impossible. But even a small, thoughtful message can bring comfort and show that you care. The examples on this page offer gentle, respectful ways to express sympathy — whether you're writing a message in a card, sending a quick text, or responding online. If you want to tailor your message to the person or feel unsure about what tone to use, our AI assistant can guide you through it with empathy.

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